It's just a matter of trust for both parties. You don't need to see who goes first or what, just trust. That trust can be earned through the ups and downs of your relationship and in the long run would build a solid foundation. It's a matter of fixing something, if there are any broken pieces which should be, a gap that isn't fixed will eventually turn into a bigger gap, so I am spouting nonsense again. ~ Alcuizar Barredo