If you let go of the one who is always hurting you

If you let go of the one who is always hurting you

Love happens when we least expect it.. One day you turn around. And there it is!

Most people always let go but never heal. You won’t find happiness long term if you always quit and move on to the next person and expect them to work magic forever and ever. You have to work on you too. First actually, a good place to start: What are you even looking for and why? Is that good enough and sincere? If not, reassessing is necessary. Don’t be a quitter if quitting doesn’t solve the problem. Til death do we part. ~ Carrie Gehringer

Healthy boundaries are necessary, abuse and infidelity are intolerable as well as mentally and physically dangerous. Never jump from one sinking ship to another and expect to get to safety – pull your floaties up and get to the shore by yourself. It can and should be done. You can’t be a good team if you’re not a whole half. ~ Carrie Gehringer

I was hurt in relationships where I thought I was loved, but discovered I was being used. I walked away but remained silent about all the pain for a long, long time. I am now in a wonderful relationship that began with a simple act of pure love and compassion that saved my life. ~ Simon Balfre 

Detachment is putting yourself first instead of letting others hurt you with lies or rude behavior. You let them know it’s not acceptable anymore. ~ Nana West 

Sometimes, there are things in our lives that aren’t meant to stay. Change may not be what we want but it is exactly what we need and sometimes, saying goodbye is the hardest thing you will ever have to do. Sometimes, saying hello makes you more vulnerable than you ever thought possible. Sometimes, some changes are too much to bear. But most of the time, change is the only thing that will save your life. ~ Shay Chaits

We must focus on ourselves first. Love ourselves and be independent, knowing that we do not need someone to make us happy. We can be happy ourselves. Once you’ve accomplished this, the right people will come along. You’ll know when it’s right. You feel it. Also, what’s meant to be always happens and everything happens for a reason. Let life flow and take it’s course. Don’t force love. Just be yourself! ~ Pegah Shahbazi 

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